How do you do it? How do you practice personal private prayer which engaged the life of Jesus so much and which in the different stages in the journey of prayer can be vocal prayer, discursive meditation, affective mental prayer, acquired recollection, infused recollection, prayer of quiet, prayer of simple union, prayer of ecstatic union and prayer of transforming union. This range of prayer can be put into two very broad and general categories, namely, active prayer and passive prayer. In active prayer which includes vocal and discursive prayer we do something to address ourselves to God through the use of mental and volitional faculties – thinking, reasoning, imagining, acts of will, visualization, remembering, etc. Examples are sacred reading, reflection, petitions, intercessory prayer, the rosary, adoration, repeating of mantra or sacred word. In passive prayer – infused contemplation – the soul is embraced by God without it exercising its faculties. God communicates “Spirit to spirit”. Normally, passive prayer begins as a natural development from the life of active prayer, which helps to prepare the faculties of the soul to receive the gift of passive prayer.
When the disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray he said to them when you pray say. You learn to pray by praying. Though prayer is the work of the Holy Spirit in, with and for us for “the Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with sighs too deep for words” (Roms 8:26), however, we need to be there for the Spirit, we must prepare. This preparation is experienced as dying to self. It is therefore difficult. The grace of contemplation is given to all but not all are willing to make the sacrifice it demands. Transforming prayer is so simple, though, not easy, but our complex human nature complicates it as it tries to understand and practice it.
In the journey into prayer, first, we must have the desire to pray for our desire shapes us, a desire that is strong enough to overcome the challenges in living the supernatural life in the flesh. Secondly, we must not be living in a state of sin rather open to daily conversion and life of charity. Otherwise, prayer is impossible since, by definition, prayer is the awareness of being in God. These are the necessary conditions or remote preparation for entering into prayer, a brief outline of which we now give in seven steps.
Positio – posture: having achieved a hunger for prayer resulting from a living and loving relationship with the Lord who has become your treasure find a suitable place where you can settle for the time of prayer. For most people, this place is the chapel before the Blessed Sacrament. Take a posture that is comfortable yet alert. Such posture varies from person to person. Discover your own. Allow yourself time to relax in body and mind. Drop all worries and anxieties conscious of being held in the palm of His hand “like a child in its mother’s arms” (Ps. 131). Allow yourself time for this to happen despite the wandering of the human mind. It is a great endowment when it serves but if it becomes the master, as it often does, it blocks us reaching our depth by distracting us with its wandering. We fail to be in touch with our being, with God. We must therefore learn to control and master the mind. There are many ways of doing this but success depends on the strength of one’s resolve and conviction. When the mind is quiet and the body restful you will experience at your depth the radiant peaceful joy of being. Stay with this peace as long as it lasts – maybe few seconds, a minute or more. It is an experience of God whose presence is peace.
Lectio – reading: to sustain and deepen this experience, reverently and gratefully take the Word of God you have chosen for the prayer, into your hands. Ask for the Holy Spirit to guide you “into all truth” (Jn. 16:13). Slowly, in the manner of listening, read the Word open before you. Do this, two or three times until something strikes you as if it is spoken and directed to you here and now – fresh. Note it. Read again, this time stop at what holds you. That phrase or that word or that image is God’s word to you here and now. Stay with it. Allow it to repeat itself at your depth, sinking ever deeper and deeper into your consciousness until it begins to say itself.
Revelatio – inspiration: as it begins to say itself close the Bible. Embrace what has dawned on you. It is the divine entering. You have opened the door to the one who has stood knocking. He enters as one would enter his house: ” See that you are dressed for action and have your lamp lit. Be like men waiting for their master to return from the wedding feast ready to open the door as soon he comes and knocks” (Lk 12:35f). Say what strikes you, God’s word to you, God himself entering your heart, your soul, his dwelling place, his house.
Meditatio – divine browsing: When the Master enter his house which you are he will take a tour inspecting his house. He will say: take this down, put that up, close that window, open the other, commenting approvingly or disapprovingly as he moves through the house which you have become. Stay with it.
Oratio – praying: You will find yourself as you accompany him through the house responding genuinely as he comments. You will thank him for the compliments, express sorrow for what is not right, ask for help to fix certain things etc… This will continue as he moves through the house till he ends his tour and inspection. Your response must come from your heart not your head in whatever way it seems appropriate and genuine at the time. Be honest with your feelings of thanksgiving, praise, adoration, wonder, sorrow, agitation, fright, fear or complaint, whatever, provided it is genuine. It is the result of your spirit encountering the Spirit of the Lord. This is prayer. You have kept the company of the Lord, you have encountered the Spirit of the Lord who transforms and transfigures you into a son and in his power you may address him: Abba, Father!
Contemplatio – contemplation: The inspection, the tour through the house is over. Note what speaks to you, what touches you, what frightens you, what you react to, what moves you in whatever way. There rest, ponder, relish, savour and linger. Do not hurry to cover much for as St Ignatius said: “It is not usually abundance of information that satisfies the soul’s desire but, rather, deeper insight into things and sensitive appreciation of them” (Spiritual Exercises, #2)The commenting has stopped and with it our response. There is silence on both sides. There is simply presence, a presence to each other as in a rapture: “Happy are those servants whom the master finds awake when he comes. I tell you solemnly, he will put on an apron, sit them down at table and wait on them” (Lk 12:21). This may last a few seconds, a minute or more. This is contemplation.
Actio – action: As the moment of rapture ends, one surfaces into normal life again but always with some programme of action, some resolution, something to be or to do. But above all these, there is a deep peace, a transformation, a new person/creation emerging for no one can see God and live. No one can encounter God and remains the same. This new self is formed in the image of Christ for “we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being changed into his likeness from one degree of glory to another; for this comes from the Lord who is Spirit” (2cor 3:18). New person means new action, new wine new wine-skin.
In conclusion, prayer must be a transfiguration experience, a transformation. Since it is a divine human encounter it must be grounded in a correct knowledge of God as fully revealed in Jesus, a God who is Father, omniscience, omni-provident, a God who does not punish but rather shields us from the full consequence of our folly, a God who in Jesus died in our place and with us. He is a generous father who needs no persuasion but rather anticipates us. The one who prays must be totally receptive and as a son/daughter, must know he/she is worthy of God. Prayer is the work of the Holy Spirit bringing us to the awareness of being in God and to an experience of God as Abba, Father. Our prayer as such adds nothing to the glory of God but in prayer we become human, fully alive and thus the glory of God. Prayer – an invitation to accept the will of God is always answered. It is a schooling in listening, an entry into silence, and a learning to live fully in the present moment. Finally, to begin to pray we must be committed to daily conversion and to a life of Charity and like little children must learn to gaze and wonder.
Rev. Fr. Dr. Anthony Njoku writes from Seat of Wisdom Seminary , Owerri
The Data of Forgiveness
The most important ingredient in today’s media economy is data. The amount of data available determines how much and how long we can work or play on the internet. Currently, many of the service providers offer unlimited data plans but we know that those “unlimited” plans are not always unlimited. Sometimes, your download speed can get slowed down when you cross a certain point. Today, however, Jesus gives us the divine model of an unlimited plan. It is the unlimited bundle of compassion and forgiveness which never gets slowed downed shut down for maintenance. The theme for this week is that we must learn to forgive without limits no matter the injury committed against us.
In Matthew’s Gospel, today’s teaching on unlimited forgiveness comes after Jesus had told his disciples the parable of the wandering sheep, so it is plausible that some would have wondered among themselves how many times a good shepherd should go after the same sheep if it keeps wandering away. In those days, people believed that forgiveness was limited to three times only – a fourth transgression was not to be forgiven. So, by asking Jesus how many times he should forgive his brother, Peter was probably aiming to increase the limit to seven times. And Jesus makes it clear that we are to forgive others, “not seven times but seventy-seven times” (Matt. 18:22).That means we must dispense an unlimited data bundle of mercy.
In Jesus Christ, we have the forgiveness of a debt we could never pay. Sin is an offence against God and a direct rebellion against his authority and creation. The debt of 10,000 talents mentioned in today’s parable symbolizes the magnitude of the offence that sin causes in God’s eyes, but he is always willing to forgive without limits. However, we can easily cut ourselves off from God’s river of mercy when we refuse to forgive others. We end up restraining God’s mercy and putting ourselves under strict justice. To unfold his mercy without compromising his justice, God leaves each person free to choose between the two. If we insist on strict justice when we are offended, we bring God’s strict justice upon ourselves. But if we offer an unlimited bundle of mercy to others, we draw God’s unlimited data of forgiveness upon ourselves.
The secret to forming a forgiving heart lies in recognizing the evil of our sin and the immensity of God’s goodness in forgiving us. Until we see the ugliness of our ingratitude and selfishness, we will never appreciate the generosity of God’s forgiveness. Let us examine ourselves now to see how much forgiveness we are giving. Is there someone we still cannot forgive even after they have expressed sorrow for their actions? Have we judged someone too harshly because of something they said or did that we did not particularly like? How many times have we failed to help somebody because we are still dwelling on an injury that we suffered many years ago? How many times have we treated someone differently based on preconceived notions or stereotypes? These are some of the factors that shackle us like chains and that disrupt the unlimited data of divine grace in our lives. When we close ourselves off to people or dismiss them based on our preconceptions, mistaken judgments, and prejudices, not only do we make them suffer, we suffer as well.
But it does not have to be that way. Jesus came to free us from and the burden of sin and unhappiness. Forgiveness is like mercury, which runs away when it is held tightly in the hand but is preserved by keeping the palm open. When we lose forgiveness, we lose the ability to give and to receive love because love is the foundation of forgiveness. And since God is the foundation of love, whoever refuses to forgive automatically rejects the love of God. This is the essence of today’s parable and it is highlighted by the contrast between what was owed by each man. The wicked slave owed his master some 10000 talents. In gold terms, that is 350 tons and at today’s price, he owed his master USD21.8 billion. This was way more than King Solomon made in a year which was 666 talents of gold or USD1.45 billion in today’s value (cf. I Kings 10:14). So, this unforgiving servant owed his master what no individual could never payback. In contrast, his fellow servant owed him the equivalent of one talent of gold or USD2.1 million; so a man who was forgiven $21.8b could not let go of $2.1m, and his wickedness landed him in the hands of torturers.
Dear friends, forgiveness is an act of compassion which is expressed in the free choice to pardon one another’s shortcomings every day, and to also pardon ourselves for own mistakes Forgiveness transcends the fear of being wounded again; it is a deliberate act in imitation of the redemptive work of Jesus, the advocacy of the Holy Spirit, and the loving kindness of the Father. The whole point of today’s parable is that our Father in heaven will do the same to anyone who refuses to forgive others. Whoever refuses to forgive is doomed to a life of bitterness, and as the ugly trend continues, the person ends up building invisible walls of resentment around themselves, thereby blocking off not just one’s relationships with other people but with God as well. Forgiveness is not just an emotional expression or a sense of righteousness; it means being merciful not only when there is an explanation or apology, or a promise of amendment from the offender, but even when the offence is deliberate, and the offender is adamant. Forgiveness is a precious gift of grace, which does not depend on the worthiness of the receiver. Forgiveness is what we called to do, and the Lord’s grace is sufficient for us in that regard. Amen.
Imo Deputy Governor’s giant strides towards revitalizing agriculture
By Joy Opara
The increasing cost of Agricultural products in Imo State in recent times has continued to be a major source of concern to the citizens of the state.
A critical appraisal of the development of Agriculture in this state reveals that successive governments had neglected this major sector of the economy, over three decades now, and this has adversely affected the revenue of government.
In line with the vision of the “shared prosperity” government of the Hope Uzodinma administration, the revolution of agriculture is among its cardinal programmes for which a high powered committee (on agricultural master plan for Imo State) has been set up.
For the purpose of resuscitating all moribund agricultural industries and facilities in the state, it is not surprising that this committee is headed by a world class Professor of Agriculture and Deputy Governor of Imo State, Prof. Placid Njoku.
The need to diversify the economy cannot be over-emphasized. It is a well known fact that there is no better and more sustainable means of diversifying the economy than through agriculture. It would be recalled that after the inauguration of his committee, the deputy governor went into action, first by visiting all moribund agricultural facilities in the state, which included Adapalm in Ohaji/ Egbema LGA, Avutu Poultry farm in Avutu, Obowo LGA, Songhai farms, Okigwe road, Owerri, ADP farms in Nekede, Owerri West. Others are Acharaubo farms in Emekuku, Owerri North, Imo Rubber Plantation in Obiti, Ohaji/ Egbema, amongst others.
Prof. Njoku in one of his speeches during the tour described agriculture as the economic base of most countries of the world. Considering the dwindling oil revenue, he said it should be a source of worry to people of good conscience that the vision of our founding fathers to generate revenue, food security, economic advancement, industrialization, employment and eradication of poverty was destroyed by successive governments.
The Deputy Governor, who not only is acknowledged as one of the greatest professors of Animal Science, a renowned Agriculturist and former Vice Chancellor of a leading University of Agriculture, the Federal University of Agriculture, Umudike, made it clear that the present government led by Governor Hope Uzodinma is desirous to return agriculture to its former glory.
The Ikeduru-born technocrat and farmer per-excellence said that the 3R Mantra of this administration namely: Reconstruction, Rehabilitation and Recovery is a base for making the dream of Imo State as the food basket of the nation come true.
Noting that government is a continuum, the deputy governor promised that his committee will build upon what is already on ground by rehabilitating the ones that could be rehabilitated and bringing in new facilities where necessary to ensure that the passion of the governor towards agricultural revival is achieved.
Meanwhile, in most of the establishments visited by the committee, it was discovered that indigenes of the communities had badly encroached into the lands and converted them to personal use. Investigations by the committee revealed that agents of some past governments in the state connived with the communities to make it possible, for their personal aggrandizement.
The deputy governor, whose humility has become legendary pledged his total support to the Governor, Senator Hope Uzodinma whom he described as God sent to right all that were done wrong by the previous administrations in the state. He called on all to give this administration the needed support to rewrite the history of Imo State in gold, especially the agricultural sector.
Child Abuse: A case of betrayal of reciprocal trust
By Christian Uzoukwu
Some years ago, while as a kid, I fell out with my father due to an occasion of sheer disobedience and on that very day, I was given no food and was ultimately battered by hunger. Child abuse includes both acts of commission and omission on the part of parents, guardians as well as care-givers.
These acts have led to a lot of actual and threatened harm meted out on countless number of children. In 2014, the WHO made an estimate of 41,000 children (under the age of 15) that are victims of homicide and other related offences. This estimate, as expounded by this world body is grossly below the real figures due to the views of the society in relation to corporal punishment experienced by children. Girls are always most vulnerable to different forms of child abuse during unrests and in war-thorn territories.
Cases of child abuse can be established in some deadly human vices such as child trafficking, child labour, forced adoption as seen in the one-child policy prevalent in China. In the Asian country, women, by law are only allowed to have one child. Local governments would sometimes allow the woman to give birth and then they would take the baby away stating the mother violated the one child policy. Child traffickers, often paid by the government, would sell the children to orphanages that would arrange international adoptions worth tens of thousands of dollars, turning a profit for the government.
Other striking examples of child abuse are the various forms of violence against the girl-child which involves infanticide, sex-selective abortions, female genital mutilations (FGM), sexual initiation of virgins in some African cultures, breast ironing in some parts of Cameroon – involving the vicious use of hot stones and other tools to flatten the breast tissue of girls who have attained the age of puberty. As if those were not enough, female students are also subject to maltreatments in countries like Afghanistan and Pakistan. This is not to talk of recurring kidnapp of female students in some parts of Nigeria, as we saw in the case of Dapchi and Chibok schoolgirls.
Based on simple analysis, child abuse can be defined as “all forms of physical and/or emotional ill-treatment, sexual abuse, neglect or negligent treatment or commercial or other exploitation, resulting in actual or potential harm to the child’s health, survival, development or dignity in the context of a relationship of responsibility, trust or power”.
This definition by WHO also falls in line with the definition propounded by the United States Centres for Disease Control and Prevention, which says that child abuse are acts of commission. This commission includes “words or overt actions that cause harm, potential harm, or threat of harm to a child”, and acts of omission (neglect), meaning “the failure to provide for a child’s basic physical, emotional, or educational needs or to protect a child from harm or potential harm.
In Nigeria, most cases of child abuse have become cumbersome due to the fact that these acts of abuses are regarded as mere punishments to unruly young ones and by so doing, should be justified and doesn’t call for any further discussion and/or scrutiny. According to various statistical studies and researches, child abuse is a vast societal cankerworm and has four profound tentacles viz:
Physical Abuse: this involves undue hitting, beating, kicking, shaking, biting, burning, strangling, insertion of pepper into the eyes and pubic regions of children, maltreatments from house-help(s) and seniors at boarding/day schools, suffocating and forcing children to live in unwholesome conditions.
Sexual Abuse also includes persuading a minor into acts of sexual intercourse, exposure of the child’s private parts, production of child-related pornographic contents and actual sexual contacts with children.
Psychological Abuse of children can be seen in cases of excessive scolding, lack of proper attention that children should be receiving from their parents and guardians, destructive criticisms and destruction of a child’s personality.
Neglect of children can also lead to children dropping out of schools, begging/stealing for food and money, lack of proper medical care for minors and realities of children looking like ragamuffins.
Consequently, the causes of child abuse can be judiciously related to sex, age, personal history, societal norms, economic challenges, lack of Rights’ Protection Agencies, parents battling with traits of alcoholism and family size. These causative agents of child abuse can bring untold effects upon the society at large and these effects can be emotional, physical and psychological as the case may be, giving rise to individuals with dissociative lifestyles.
Furthermore, the treatment of individuals who have been malformed with respect to the abuses they experienced abinitio, can be a long process because it involves behavioral therapy and other forms of neoteric therapies. Treatments of psyche-related problems are not just a one-day process due to the long-lasting effects of abuses on various conscious mental activities. It is also noteworthy to point out that, prevention is always better than cure and holding fast to this true reality, entails that agencies who have the responsibility of protecting the rights of children must continue to do the needful which requires proper oversights of parent-child relationships.
To conclude this piece therefore, we must agree that untold hardships have been a great challenge for children especially in Africa and some parts of Asia. Children with long histories of abuses turn out to become societal misfits. To this end we encourage that: Children should be given a free platform to express themselves on many topical issues and issues relating to their existence.
Children should also be allowed to freely ask questions on any issue, no matter, how weird it seems to be.
Governments should make regulations outlawing societal norms and values that might amount to child abuses.
Corporal punishments by parents, guardians and care-givers should be discouraged at all levels, thereby making parents/guardians/care-givers who seem to be incorrigible, to face the full weight of justice enshrined in the law of the land.
Education system (both conventional and unconventional) in Nigeria should be able to train up young ones into becoming critical, analytical and evaluative individuals with a view of defending the vulnerable.
And again, since children are said to be leaders of tomorrow, it is pertinent to note that to secure their future, their present existence must be cherished and protected.
Christian Chimemerem Uzoukwu
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